Helping the Poor and Limits on Family Size

The letter from Jean Berry is a gross stereotypical misrepresentation of large families.

My husband and I raised eight children. We were able to give them parental time with homework, scouting, camping outings, trips, visits to parks, museums, zoos, etc. We did not give them a college education, but we helped them to get one as they helped themselves. All of our children have at least one bachelor’s degree. All were excellent students throughout their school lives. Several were valedictorians, National Merit scholars, etc. One graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Stanford University. One has a Ph.D., three have master’s degrees. Another is in a doctoral program in computer science after earning two bachelor’s degrees. I feel certain that others will pursue more advanced degrees as their circumstances permit, as they love to learn.

But more important they have a close, warm caring relationship with each other. They are there to help each other and others outside the family in any time of need, whether it be moral support or the physical support of helping to carry furniture into a new home. All are very productive members of society.

In addition, while raising these children, giving them time with homework, scouting, outings, etc., I earned my own master’s degree, my Ph.D. and as about to receive my juris doctorate from law school.

I realize that it takes delaying gratification in order to raise a large family, and it may not be as easy as raising your boy and your girl, but, Mrs. Berry, don’t condemn large families when you don’t know anything about them.

KATHLEEN R. TRUXAW

Whittier