Vietnam Guilt

It is hard to describe the feelings of frustration I had over the Vietnam War itself, but I know I was part of a nation that ignored its returning heroes.

When the men began leaving for Saudi in August, I said to myself, “When they come back, this nation better have learned its lesson by the hurt we caused the Vietnam vets.” I was determined to do something to welcome the new crop of returning vets. I needed to get rid of the guilt I felt over my lack of interest in Vietnam veterans’ problems.

Is the nation doing the same thing? I think so. We have hung flags and worn yellow ribbons and made signs and marched for our troops. But it wasn’t only for these troops. I think it’s our way of saying we’re sorry we blew it so badly after Vietnam, and we’ve learned our lesson. We’re sorry we took out our frustration with government leaders on our brave returning heroes. That’s like being mad at your dad but hitting your brother.

I’ve talked to others who have these same feelings so I know if there are a few of us in my small circles that there are hundreds of thousands across the nation who feel the same. I think a lot of these flags and yellow ribbons are being put up 20 years late by people like me who are anxious for all our military heroes to be recognized. Vietnam vets, these ribbons belong to you too.

SHERMAN SLYE, Oceanside