Coach feature: Steve Conti -- Working out for the best
Barry Faulkner
Steve Conti is no mystic. So, while the Corona del Mar High boys
and girls volleyball coach acknowledges certain fortuitous turns in his
personal and professional life, he is also quick to single out hard work
as the primary reason for any success his teams have enjoyed.
And there has been plenty of success.
In five seasons as the CdM boys coach, the Sea Kings have reached the
the CIF Southern Section finals the last four years, including titles
last spring (Division I) and 1998 (Division III).
His three-year tenure with the CdM girls program includes a 1997
Southern Section crown in Division III-AA.
Previous coaching stops at Foothill High, Golden West College and The
Bishop’s School in La Jolla also include a string of league titles and
two CIF San Diego Section title-match appearances.
Then there was his playing career at Estancia High and GWC, where he
helped the Eagles and Rustlers to two section and two state runner-up
finishes, respectively.
Conti made the team at San Diego State, but elected not to compete due
to work commitments.
Though supremely competitive and working toward a teaching career,
Conti didn’t initially target coaching as part of his future.
But, for the first of many occasions, fate intervened.
“I was visiting some friends in Santa Barbara and one of their
girlfriends was varsity girls coach at The Bishop’s,” Conti recalled.
“Her junior varsity coach had just resigned, eight games into the season,
and they needed a replacement. The Monday after I drove back from Santa
Barbara, I went straight to practice and I was the JV coach.
“I knew about volleyball from having played, but I look back now and
realize I didn’t know what the heck I was doing as a coach.”
Conti quickly found his way, took over the small private school’s
girls varsity program two years later and led it to its first section
title match in his first season.
But, when a his part-time teaching contract wasn’t renewed, Conti
returned to Orange County, went back to school to finish off work toward
a credential, and became the men’s assistant coach at GWC.
Then, in 1992, he became walk-on girls varsity coach at Foothill and
later guided the Knights’ boys, as well.
While in the process of applying for the CdM boys opening, Conti was
told he had landed a teaching job at Foothill, so he planned to remain
there.
But, after returning from a summer vacation, he was informed the
teaching job was no longer available.
Soon after that, CdM Athletic Director Jerry Jelnick called to
congratulate him on his full-time employment at Foothill, only to find
out it had fallen through.
“CdM asked me back for a second interview and things just worked out,”
Conti said. “I sometimes look back and wonder how different things might
be if I’d have gotten that job and stayed at Foothill.”
Before obtaining a teaching position at CdM, he taught three years at
Ensign Middle School, where another twist of fate introduced him to his
future wife, Kerrie.
“My teacher’s aid was called to jury duty and Kerrie came to my
classroom as her replacement,” Conti said. “Talk about fate. I tell my
players now there are things they may not be happy about, but I think
things happen for a reason.”
Conti, 34, traces the reasons for his coaching success to his
upbringing, but also acknowledges the influence of his own coaches, such
as Tom Pestolesi (Estancia) and Albert Gasparian (GWC).
“I work with a pretty simple equation,” he said. “I want my players to
go as hard as they can and have a good attitude. Then, usually, good
things happen. Kids may not always like how hard I make them work, but
hopefully they’ll eventually appreciate it. As I’ve matured, I really
realize the impact I can have working with kids. I try to instill life
lessons they can transfer into the classroom, relationships, and the real
world.”
In his spare time, Conti enjoys surfing, playing golf and mountain
biking. He also played pickup basketball games, where the intensity still
reaches fever pitch.
“I don’t know any of my friends who likes to lose,” he said.
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