STUDENT OUTLOOK -- Lauren Loeb
The obnoxious sound of your alarm clock blares into your ears, and you
groan remembering yet another day of school is on the loose. A day filled
with endless lectures, impossible labs and complicating literature awaits
you.
You feel as if you can’t deal with it anymore, but then you remember,
there’s still college to worry about! I’m not sure about you, but it
seems that ever since I entered my freshman year, teachers and parents
have blasted the topic of “college” into my head.
“Remember kids, what you do now will affect the rest of your lives” or
“Don’t stress out too much, but this year counts the most, so you better
do well.”
Has anyone ever thought of focusing on today and what counts this very
minute in life? Don’t get me wrong, I want to attend a distinguished
university, and I do believe in working hard, but it stresses the student
out even more by the constant reminder of the word “college.”
I found myself the past two years of high school only participating in
activities merely because people said it would “look good” on your
college resume. What ever happened to just having fun or just doing
something because you liked it, not because it looks good?
After seeing myself and my peers always on the verge of pulling our
hair out, it makes me wonder if any of us really learn anything in our
classes or if we are just like robots entering the information, spitting
it out for tests and then erasing all of our data. Honestly. When was the
last time anyone sat down to read a book for no reason?
Why does everything we do in high school need to count toward
something? Take community service for example. Community service is
supposed to be done out of the goodness of someone’s heart. Although
students have good intentions of helping out in the community, part of
the reason we are performing these acts above and beyond the required
hours is because we are told every little thing counts toward helping us
being accepted into the college of our choice.
High school students need to realize that although college is a very
important step in a person’s life, it’s not meant to control it. Teens
need to enjoy their high school days without feeling pressured every
single second. Start doing things that you enjoy just for the heck of it,
go do something out of the ordinary and know that not everything you do
in life has to count for something.
A teacher once told me it is not the destination, it is the journey
you take to get there. My advice is: Make your high school career an
extraordinary journey by working hard and having fun and hopefully that
will lead you to fulfilling your dreams!
* LAUREN LOEB is a Corona del Mar High School senior whose columns
will appear on an occasional basis in the Community Forum section.
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