Revenge is best not served
In the Islamic faith, revenge is discouraged, and forgiveness is very
much emphasized and encouraged. If the victim insists on not
forgiving, then justice has to be sought through a legitimate
judiciary system. Revenge leads to more hatred and escalates the
tension and the animosity between the parties.
IMAM MOUSTAFA AL-QAZWINI
Islamic Educational Center
of Orange County
Costa Mesa
“Can exacting retribution by inflicting punishment ever serve to
vindicate a person after a hostile altercation with another?”
This question is a microcosm of profound questions with which all
Christians wrestle, such as “Under what circumstances can violence
have divine sanction?” On such questions, good people of faith come
to very different conclusions.
Christians who take to heart (St.) Paul’s counsel in Romans 12:19,
which quotes Deuteronomy 32:35, would like to believe that vengeance
is God’s prerogative, not ours, and say that revenge is never a
justifiable response.
But this primary question raises so many secondary ones: Was the
original complaint righteous and/or reasonable? Was the quarrel
verbal and/or physical? Did hostile feelings and/or actions lead to
physical and/or psychological and/or emotional and/or spiritual
injury, harm or wrong? The old axiom “Never say never” may be
appropriate here.
With regard to people who disagree with me or even wish me ill,
Jesus counsels not revenge but “Confuse and disarm them with love!”
(See Matthew 5:38ff. and Luke 6:27ff., among many possibilities.)
Our Book of Common Prayer (page 816) has us pray for such persons:
“Lead them and us from prejudice to truth; deliver them and us from
hatred, cruelty, and revenge; and in God’s good time enable us all to
stand reconciled before God.”
As with all good questions, the best answer is God.
THE VERY REV. CANON
PETER D. HAYNES
St. Michael & All Angels
Episcopal Church
Corona del Mar
The most persistently misunderstood passage in Scripture is “you
shall give life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth.” Rather than
commanding cruel revenge, this law was actually a great advance over
the mandates of contemporaneous civilizations. This verse teaches not
harsh legalism or vengeance, but that we should respond in
proportional degree when attacked.
The punishment had to fit the crime. An “eye for an eye” meant
only an eye for an eye, not two eyes for one, not a life for a tooth,
not a tribe for a life, not a generational blood feud.
Further, in Jewish jurisprudence, this law was never followed
literally but, rather, taken to mean suitable monetary punitive
damages for lost eyes or limbs. Judaism never knew mutilation or
torture as legal punishments.
To the uneducated reader, this passage sounds harsh and punitive,
proclaiming the cruel doctrine of the barbaric ethic of retribution.
When properly understood, this passage is seen as representing a
considerable ethical improvement. What Moses was really teaching was
that the punishment must be commensurate with the offense, not
unrestrictedly severe, measured justice instead of wild revenge.
Our responses must be proportional to the assault. Though revenge
must be foresworn, evil must be answered. This verse does not refer
to the thirst for vengeance, but to the hunger for justice.
RABBI MARK MILLER
Temple Bat Yahm
Newport Beach
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