Commentary: Saying goodbye to my friend Ed Baume

I have often struggled with expressing my sentiments for those for whom I care. In fact, when called upon to do so, I strive to maintain my composure.

At Saturday’s memorial for Ed Baume, I’m certain many in the audience enjoyed the brevity of my words, while others wondered what I intended to say before I went silent.

So I want to finish what I was unable to say here in this forum. You see, I have found myself rushing through life noticing much, but very often forgetting to say hello, thank you and, eventually, goodbye.

Baume has gone to heaven, and on Saturday at the request of his son, I began to speak of his life and gaze at the crowd I was reminded of the power of one person to truly inspire.

What was I going to say? After all, I was expected to not only speak as the mayor, but I was expected to deliver a speech worthy of this great man. Well it did not work out as planned.

So hear is what I intended to say, but never did:

“Almost a decade ago, we dedicated the opening of the Pop Warner facility dedicated to Ed Baume for his loyal service. I had no idea I would be standing in almost the same spot eulogizing my friend just a few years later.

“While I was blessed to have a mother and father who believed in service above self, I have been equally blessed to be surrounded by earthly angels who, not unlike my parents, give beyond anyone’s expectations.

“Today we close a chapter in the book of my friend Edgar Baume, and, undoubtedly, he has profoundly influenced and inspired more than any of us can imagine. For that we thank you, Ed.

“Sadly, saying goodbye is only painful when you realize saying hello will no longer be possible. However, sooner or later I’m certain we will once again say hello Ed, and until then, God bless you, sir!”

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STEVE MENSINGER is the mayor of Costa Mesa.